How Can I Overcome The Fear Of Being Single?
Hi, I just want to know what can I do because I’ve always had someone with me. My last boyfriend and I were together for 3 years and now that I’m single I’m terrified and very anxious and I can’t stop thinking that I’m never going to find someone. I know there are men who want to date me, but they only want sex and I hate being used, I don’t want that.
I just got out of a 10 year relationship and I am doing fine. Being single is probably what you need in your life right now. Just go out and date and see what happens. A little booty call doesn’t hurt every now and then! haha
if you hate being used, then don’t allow them to use you. have some structure in your life and SAY no to them. when you allow sex to happen, that gets in the way of letting the relationship grow on its own, second, without sex at least you know where this man stands, is he only with you for it or with you because he wants to get to know you?
Trya mentioned something on her show that i was waiting to be mentioned. she said that women always have this need to be with someone constantly as if its a matter of life and death. nobody is responsible for your happiness accept you. there is no use to worrying about it. enjoy your single days, enjoy your Freedom. just enjoy until somebody walks in it.
well i have been divorced for almost 2 yrs now and i am still single.sure at first i was all freaked out thinking im gonna be single forever,but its gone away and i know there is a woman out there for me,just have not ran into her yet.but there are guys out there for you who are just like me.i want a relationship,not sex.so good luck.
ure exactly in the same position iam in right now .. i had a break up after 3 years and had never been single since last couple of years… its a terrible feeeing…. but we have to deal with it… go out make new friends…try to know more people and u definately would find some one who doesnt need ur body but love..cheers=)
Be confident about yourself. Better to get some friends.. and say No to guys if they want sex alone. Use your best justification to avoid guys looking for sex in the name of dating. Long distance friends might be good choice and also girl friends.
You women have to realize that it’s ok to be single, it just means you are waiting for a better person – and get some confidence to be alone – it doesn’t mean anything bad!
hi liz, I know how you feel. You might want to join some clubs etc through your church or school. There is someone there for you so good luck and Merry Christmas. You will be fine
Adopt a on-line husband, make belief be honest and state ya needs.. safe sex and doe’snt cost ya a divorce.
Give yourself time