How Do You Know Whether You Prefer Being Single Or In A Relationship?
I’m just done with college. I enjoy my life being single, though I never tried a real relationship. And yet, I get to thinking that I’m wanting to share now but also keep saying “now is not the time, now is not the same”
So what is the ideal age? Or how do you know if it’s what you really want? Because I don’t.
First off there isn’t an “ideal age” to be in a relationship.
I always said i wanted to be single because you don’t have to be tied down to that one person (you know). But then i don’t like to be alone so i chose to be in a relationship. And so far it’s the best thing i’ve done. So it really depends on how ready you think you are to take on that role. Just ask yourself if you truly like being single or if you would like to have a person that you can go to in case of anything.
To be honest…
i have never been in a relationship and i always wanted to know what it feels like to be loved i guess. And i have a real low self- esteem so i try not to think negative. But some people prefer being single because if your with someone you can’t act normally around him and all you think about is impressing him. Which i think is totally true because im such a random and fun, kind person and i no if i go out with someone i’ll be totally shy and won’t act like i normally do. So its difficult either way. And it doesn’t matter what age you are because everyone has there first crush and all that but its just finding the right and special person. So im not sure what i prefer. But i would love to be in a relationship